Coming to New York with no job lined up has been the most frightening part of the moving experience. It was a calculated risk, but the fact that the second after we arrived the country spiraled into a terrible economic downturn did not exactly boost my confidence on how this would end up. I didn't foresee that, or the effects it might have on the job market, but that's why you set emergency savings aside for this kind of move. Ten years ago I would have found this to be a zany adventure, but at 36, it's mostly bone chilling. Ten years ago I was an idiot, I didn't know enough to understand what can go wrong in life. Like I said, we had an emergency fund, but would it last long enough? Nor do we have families that can bail us out (not that I would even dream of being bailed out anyway). So it was a rough wait. I lost 8 lbs. (I never lose weight—but after now going to Cafe Steinhof and Bonnie's I've probably gained it back), I stressed, I panicked, I could not sleep. But I got hired yesterday, and today Chris got a temporary museum job, on Wall Street of all places. He's also been on a few interviews for a builder manager job at museum in the Upper East Side, and so he's a front runner for that. That's great, because even though he's very qualified, museum jobs are scarce now.
It took 36 days of looking for me to find a full-time permanent position. 25 resumes were sent out, and I went on 2 interviews (a 3rd at Brooklyn Academy of Music was canceled when I got hired). My new day job is a staff position in academia, and I'll be working in an interesting Gothic building from the early 1800s. Let me state the obvious and say I'm glad this is all working out so far, especially at this time.